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Local Emotions

#17   We all wrestle with our emotions.  Men, women, children; it’s just part of being human.  We all have the capability to be compassionate.  We all have the capacity to be non-reactive.  Women, men and especially children, can be non-judgemental, … Continue reading

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Understanding

#16   Understand that being human means having and dealing with emotional experiences.  Both women and men react impulsively when it comes to dealing with emotional issues. By being there for each other, by understanding each other’s needs to release emotions … Continue reading

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Open to New Experiences

#15   It would be of benefit to both men and women to consider being coachable, teachable and open to new experiences.  When we decide to be in relationship with someone, we take on the responsibility of bringing into that relationship … Continue reading

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Seeking a New Awareness

#14  Both women and men seek to avoid some of the hard feelings felt within committed relationships.  To get a new awareness, a certain task much be done; a task that is simple and yet often very difficult to do: … Continue reading

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Connection Rejection

#13 On Tip #10, Rejection Really Sucks!  I spoke about how rejection by a woman can play out for a man.  This time, I will speak to how connection plays out for a woman. Connection is to a woman as … Continue reading

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Love Hurts?

#12 There is a song put out by the group Nazareth called “Love Hurts.”  Many people have heard it, danced to it and sang along to it, tears streaming down their face as they reinforce its message.  Now 40 years … Continue reading

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Luckily by Design

#11 Luckily, by design, men were born with an innate need to provide, protect and solidly connect with the women that they love.   All they ask for in return is to be accepted for who they are, graciously accept what … Continue reading

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Rejection Really Sucks!

#10  Being rejected by a woman he just met is an awkward and often embarrassing pill for a man to swallow.  However, being rejected by a woman he has given his heart to, is like death to a man. Sure, … Continue reading

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